O.C.D. YOUR LOVE LIFE...From a different perspective

 

 

 

 

For many years I have been giving advice to people about dating, love, and finding happiness with another person in this deliriously fucked up world. I have never been a master at being in a relationship, however I have mastered the art of being able to grow with someone and not afraid to show it and tell it. Today I decided that this is a voice I am proud to be able to share with anyone who wants listen! For those of you interested in reading more it is time to O.C.D. your Love Life!

Being in a relationship takes a lot of patience and skill. In my opinion men and women, men and men, women and women, people as a general race were not meant to be in monogamous relationships. It isn't part of our DNA! However, given our society and the standards we have set onto ourselves we find ourselves challenged, day in and day out, of how to live fully while thinking about someone else's feelings and emotions.

I started writing a book on this subject years ago and found myself at a standstill once I was finally in a healthy relationship, so I will start today with a quick O.C.D. Love Life Tip! There will be more to come and as always this goes hand in hand with my O.C.D. Experience.

 

O.C.D. Love Life Tip #1

FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT!

 

 

 

 

 

I was out to dinner the other night with an entire table of girls, including my girlfriend, and all of the ladies were talking about men, their last relationship, and dating in New York City. They all had different stories, and all behaved differently to get them to their present, single lady lives. They asked me what dating was like in NYC and what to expect from "boys". My response was clear and simple....

What do you want from them?

This question applies to both men and women, although the answers can vary greatly in sexes.

Before you start dating, again, before you jump into a serious relationship, before you start fucking around and putting your energy all over the place, figure out what you want for yourself first. If you are carelessly dating, playing the field without any thought about what your end goal is, you might have some fun, but you might end up completely confused.

The key word is FOR YOURSELF! Know what you want for yourself first before asking someone else what they want. It will be much easier to find love or even stay clear of it if you know what you're looking for without someone else putting onto you what they are looking for.

Remember, O.C.D. stands for Organize & Create Discipline. The sooner you start to ORGANIZE your life, set your priorities, dismiss distractions and negativity the sooner you will be able to CREATE the DISCIPLINE you need to operate as a whole person who will be open to finding love.

-OCD Klosky